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Why should I attend Shadows Private Club instead of another private club?

Here’s why:

We are the only lifestyle club in the DC metro area.

Not everywhere can you meet people in the lifestyle. We go above and beyond to make the environment fun:

  • We serve free amenities (soda, cups, mixers, ice).
  • Free food on Saturdays (example dishes: fish, chicken and etc).
  • We host parties with themes attached to them. In our shadow play parties, everything is really dark. When the lights are dimmed, the lifestyle becomes sexy and alive. We also have glow parties, costume parties, queen of spade parties.
  • Sundays are game days, and we watch the game while enjoying the lifestyle.

We’re open at least an hour later than most clubs. Most other clubs close at 2, we close at 3.

We host DJ Ruff to make the atmosphere vibrant and dynamic.

We host Wet T-Shirt Competitions and a host of other competitions.

We are an exclusive private club and are selective in our admission to make sure that lifestyle members feel safe, comfortable and right at home.

Can I rent the club for my own personal event?

Yes. The rental rate is currently $600/hour. For an extra cost, we can provide snacks and refreshments, a DJ, serving staff, security staff, decorations, etc. Have your next conference, birthday party or wedding here.

What kinds of mixers do you provide?

We provide all of the regular mixers completely FREE of charge: Diet Cola, Cola, Sprite, Ginger Ale, Tonic, Club Soda, Cranberry, Pineapple, and Grapefruit. If you want us to provide your favorite mixer, please talk to staff or management, or contact us on our website.

Do I have to be 21 to attend?

Yes. You need to show State issued ID to enter.

What is the average age range of your members?

Our members average the youngest for a lifestyle club, and consist of the largest percentage of single women at a lifestyle club in the Washington DC metropolitan area.

What types of payments do you take at the door for our visit fees and annual membership?

We take cash, cashapp, paypal, apple pay and major credit cards.

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Do I have to be a member to attend Shadows Private Club?

Yes. All couples, single men and single females are required to become members of the club. While you may begin the application process online, you must also sign a waiver onsite, be approved by staff, then pay a one day or an annual one-year membership fee. All memberships fees MUST be paid onsite. You can attend an event on the same day you become a member.